Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Just a Little Bit Off the Top

Jacob has been in desperate need of a hair chop. Each time I cut it I comment on how he has less on top to chop :). We finally got around to chopping the other night and the camera happened to be sitting nearby. We took an initial picture to document the event, which, of course, degenerated into us trying to be as goofy as possible. Which picture is your favorite?



Exhibit 1




Exhibit 2





Exhibit 3


That last one is truly scary looking. Especially with the red eye. Jacob looks like he's about to get a lobotomy! Don't worry, the haircut turned out just fine, scalp intact, and we dissolved into giggles after seeing that last one :)



Here's something else in our kitchen that needs a haircut.
This must be what happens when you leave onions out in the warmth and sunlight. I must say, we have enjoyed watching them sprout over the last few days.

The trip to Zanzibar


(From the Summer of 2003)

Jacob lived in Makunduchi the summer before we met. It is a small rural village on Zanzibar Island, off the coast of Dar es Salaam, Tanzania. He was doing a field study through BYU at the time. While there, in addition to learning Swahili, he collected data regarding dietary intake and nutrition practices of Muslim children. There was a small piece of data that he failed to get at the time that he wanted to get now to make his data complete. He was hoping to develop a measurement tool for food consumption in the absence of precise measuring equipment. So we traveled from Nairobi all the way back to Makunduchi for that single piece of data, and I was thrilled to be able to see where Jacob had lived before we met.

To get to Zanzibar we took the overnight bus from Nairobi to Dar es Salaam and then we took a ferry across to the island. It is a shame we had to take the overnight bus because I would have loved to see the scenery better. But we were poor students at the time and we couldn't afford the nicer bus. As it was, I still saw some awesome sights. I awoke to the sun rising over the Serengeti - a moment I will never forget and cannot describe - and saw as the scenery changed from plains to very green and very beautiful diverse forests as we passed a very old mountain range. I saw people of all kinds walking along the road, Maasai villages, and a large variety of dwellings. We were now near the Maasai Steppe and for the duration of our stay in Tanzania we ran into one or a few Maasai in full traditional clothing everywhere and anywhere we went.

The Maasai are known for continuing to wear their traditional tribal clothing regardless of how integrated they become into society as a whole. While on the ferry to Zanzibar I found myself needing to use the bathroom. I searched around and finally found one just off the outer deck. It was occupied so I waited just outside for my turn. I must say I had a bit of a start when it was a tall Maasai man in full traditional atire who popped out of the loo. I shouldn't have been surprised, but I just wasn't expecting to see him in such a modern setting.


These children in Makunduchi were some of Jacob's neighbors and study subjects back in the summer of 2001. They were very instrumental in helping him to learn Swahili. You can just hear them gleefully shouting, "Mzungu! Kupiga picha!" which literally means, "White person! Take a picture!"


The villagers were glad to see Jacob again and to see that he had a wife. He confided to me that he had been offered a few wives while he was there last. All of which he had refused. We had brought a few yards of fine green and gold patterned cloth with us as a gift for Jacob's old housekeeper and cook, Fatuma. We had purchased it on the streets of Dar es Salaam the day before. To our disappointment Fatuma had gone to a neighboring town the day of our visit. Her family said she would cry when she found out she had missed our visit. There was no way we could have sent word ahead of time to announce our visit. There is no electricity where they are and the mail system would have been too slow.

But Jacob saw many other old friends. Upon seeing him again, the first thing everyone said was "Yakubu! Umenepa!" which means, "Jacob! You have gotten fat!" It was true. Jacob had been very skinny (6'3" and 180 lbs) when we got married and was now about 40 pounds heavier. Still not fat, but definitely less skinny. They were giving him a compliment and everyone attributed it to being married. But we know better. He gained most of his weight while living with a Luo man named Ashiembi in Western Kenya in the previous months. (Barak Obama's father was also a Luo man, and all the Luos we know are extremely proud of that fact.) Ashiembi was a veterinarian and was wealthy enough to support his mother and two wives. Jacob reports that for dinner, he and Ashiembi would visit the second wife's house and be fed a great dinner of rice, vegetables, salt fish from lake Victoria, and hot whole milk, fresh from the cow, boiled with cinnamon and sweetened with sugar. Afterward, they came home to the first wife's house and were fed another huge dinner of the same. Then they would be invited over to Ashiembi's mother's house for yet another feast. It is rude to turn down food. What was Jacob to do? He had to keep eating even if he was so full it hurt.

After collecting the data we needed from Makunduchi, we spent a little time with some of Jacob's friends in Stonetown. Jacob was very pleased with the effect my presence had on the trip as a whole because I increased our access to the world of the women. I can access different parts of life that Jacob cannot because I am a woman and he is not.

Jacob took this picture of me with the women of the household in Stonetown. We had just finished eating a meal together from a huge communal plate of coconut-cooked rice with fruit while sitting on a mat on the floor as is the tradition there. It was delicious.



While in Zanzibar we stayed in Stonetown at a very comfortable bed and breakfast. It was near Forodani - the best eating spot in town. Every night at sunset the seaside would come alive at Forodani where the fishermen and their families sell their freshly prepared catch from the Indian Ocean along with glasses of freshly pressed sugar cane juice flavored with lime. Heaven in a glass. At Forodani you find all kinds of amazingly fresh and delicious seafood at impossibly low prices, roasted on a grill. You go past the rows of food, point at which piece of octopus, squid, lobster, or fish you want, and they put it on a plate for you with a savory sauce.



Here I am in the bedroom at the bed and breakfast, displaying the bites I got on my leg from an overzealous insect who traveled with us on the overnight bus from Nairobi. He must have gotten stuck inside my sock and been mad about it.



This is the view from Stonetown on the Zanzibar coast looking west over the ocean toward the African continent. Dar es Salaam is too far away to see.




Our stay in Zanzibar was far too short. It is a fascinating and historical place - the birthplace of Swahili and a place of trade among different cultures and continents for centuries. I'm so glad we went, even if it was for a little while.

Home Sweet Home




I took these pictures during May and June of 2008 during our visits and travels in the weeks following our return from Africa. I share them now to help explain how lovely our homecoming was. It was like the spring and summer were shouting, "Hello! Welcome home!"







The view just down the road from Jacob's parents' house where Jacob grew up


Just a little bit further down the road


The Columbia River Gorge as seen from the top of the hill in Jacob's parents' back yard


Mt. Hood peeking through the trees also as seen from the backyard


Here you can see the setting of Jacob's childhood home and the place of our residence in 2007. I miss it. We had a lovely time living there.


Flying over the Cascades is always a treat. This is Mount Hood as seen from the air above Hood River Valley. You can just see Mount Jefferson in the distance.


And here is Mount Hood and Mount Adams as seen from the South, with the Columbia River flowing between them.


Flying is wonderful, but driving also has its own delights. The next four pictures were taken while traveling westbound on I-84 through Idaho and the Blue Mountains in Eastern Oregon.









Last fall, our dear friend Kristen came to Portland for orientation for a new job she was taking in Uganda. Jacob and Kristen went to grad school together and we've stayed in touch. We really enjoyed her visit and we took her to see the sights and do some short hikes along the old highway.


Kristen at Crown Point


Waterfall Pics




It's good to be home.

Coming Home to Ava's Birth

As springtime comes I am reminded that we have been back in the United States for almost a year now. We returned from Africa in May last year. Upon our return I realized afresh that the United States is a remarkably amazing place, and that there's no place like home. In the first few weeks after our return, and while looking for a job, we visited family in Utah, Idaho, and Oregon to help ease our transition.

When returning from a place like the DR Congo, one must expect a bit of culture shock. This was the worst I had experienced yet - I was so overwhelmed by the new city, the different culture (even though it was familiar), the fast pace of life and all the technology, and reverting to speaking English and Spanish again. I do believe my new coworkers believed me to be a very shy person at first, because it was all I could do to learn and absorb the new tasks of my job in the fast-paced high-risk labor and delivery department. Interacting with my environment beyond that was too much for me to handle at first. I got over it, though.

The timing of our homecoming could not have been better, because a day or two after our return my brother James and his wife Katie called with the news that Katie's water had broken and they were off to the hospital. We quickly drove from Salt Lake to Idaho Falls so that I could be present to help Katie (and my brother James, too) through the labor and delivery process. It was such a special experience to be present at Ava's birth and to be able to meet her and greet her as she came into the world. Ava eventually came via cesarean section, and since I'm a labor and delivery nurse I was allowed to enter the operating room with Katie and James and stay with them, explaining to them everything that was going on. Usually hospitals allow only one family member into the operating room so it was a great privilege to be there. I was also deeply honored by James and Katie for inviting me to be a part of this amazing experience.

Proud Aunt Laura holding beautiful Ava - just minutes old.

Sunday, April 19, 2009

Jacob's Surgery

Ever since I've known him (and for as long as he can remember), Jacob has had trouble breathing through his nose. He gets dust in his throat when hiking on a dusty trail, and he feels like he's suffocating when he eats because he always has to breath through his mouth. Poor guy. Every once in a while he can breathe through one nostril but the rest of the time his nose is plugged. Until now!!! He visited an ENT (ear nose and throat) specialist (and his name was not Treebeard) a couple weeks ago who said, with a scope in hand, "Yup, I can see why you have a problem. Things are pretty crooked inside there. I can fix your nose, no problem." Our jaws dropped and we said, "Could it really be so easy?" The "septoplasty with turbinate reduction" was scheduled for a week later and done last Wednesday afternoon. The surgery lasted about an hour and Jacob was home a few hours later. He should finish healing within a week or so and be able to breath easy at last! Yay! When he woke up from the anesthesia he said he felt like thanking the whole world.

The surgery was done in the same hospital where I work so I got a tremendously big kick out of seeing my husband wearing the exact same pattern of hospital gown that I see all my pregnant and laboring patients wear. I of course, had to take a picture while he struck a very "manly" pose to counteract the fact that this gown had probably been worn at some point by a woman in labor.



Here is a much more thoughtful and serious Jacob just minutes before going back to the operating room.
The man you see in the background helped with the operation. After taking Jacob's health history, he told us a hilarious joke to break the tension:

Knock knock.
Who's there?
Interrupting cow.
Inter--
MOO!!

We laughed all the way until it was time for surgery. The doctor came out to the waiting room and chatted with me after the surgery. He said that the inside of Jacob's nose had been smooshed over to the left side but that things were looking really good by the end of the surgery. I asked him how his nose had gotten that way and he said it could be one of two things. Possibly a childhood injury, or we could blame his mother - something about the way babies' faces get smooshed as they come through the birth canal. We may never know. But the cause is not as important as the fact that Jacob will now be able to easily smell things, chew with his mouth shut, and keep dust out of his throat! Hooray!

Thursday, April 16, 2009

SIMS Trip

Now that we've moved, I've been able to organize pictures. You'll be seeing more posts about past years as I try to record some of our history.

While in nursing school, I was able to travel to Honduras during winter vacation with a group called Students for International Mission Service. Jacob had been to Honduras in 1998 after Hurricane Mitch destroyed so much of the country (See this link to find out about it). He had so many stories to tell about his work there that I was more than a little bit jealous. So when the opportunity arose for me to take this trip and taste a bit of Honduras for myself, I couldn't refuse it. This trip was so great for me in many ways. It was my first time acting as a nurse in a true clinical setting outside of school, and it greatly improved my confidence as a Spanish speaker. Before this trip I had been too shy to speak my Spanish, but as I was forced to translate for people for the first time, I discovered I was pretty okay at it. That confidence booster was so helpful for me when I started work in East Los Angeles as a labor and delivery nurse where nearly all of my patients spoke Spanish.

Our little group of nursing, pre-med and public health students was headed by a doctor and his wife. Our destination was a little nutritional rehabilitation hospital and orphanage in Peña Blanca, Honduras, a small town a little way out from San Pedro Sula. It is primarily a rehabilitation hospital for sick and malnourished children whose parents or family can not take care of them.

We held a clinic and did checkups on all the children and the staff. We also invited the community to come to a clinic for one day. When we weren't in clinic we spent time holding and playing with the children, saw the archeological sites around Lake Yojoa which was directly adjacent to the orphanage, jumped off a cliff into the river below Pulhapanzak Falls, and we took a day trip to the ruins at Copán.


Here's some pictures of the kids at the clinic. They loved the attention we gave them and we loved giving it. Just look at them! How can you not fall in love?








In this picture you can see the grounds of the orphanage. Every time I walked past, this same horse was always hanging out munching on the lawn.


These gals helped care for the younger children at the center. They themselves had grown up in the orphanage and were now old enough to be employed helpers. They're all dressed up for a wedding celebration that took place while we were there.


One of the children was sent to a hospital in Tegucigalpa with acute kidney failure. They sent me with a small group to the hospital to check on her and bring news. I was able to report that she was receiving good care, but I never did find out what happened to her after I left.

Overlooking Tegucigalpa


Visiting Lake Yojoa



The ruins at Copán



Seeing huge old trees growing out of the structures really made it hit home how long this place had been there. It was eerie and thrilling to be standing there.


I left Honduras having had a wonderful time but wanting to go back. I'm still a little bit jealous of Jacob's experience there. I mean, the guy hitchhiked across the whole country from Tegucigalpa to San Pedro Sula and met amazing people. He was fluent in Spanish at the time, too, so he could really truly understand what was going on. That settles it. We have to go back.

Spring has Sprung

Flowers are blooming, I'm feeling warm, and I get to drive to and from work in the daylight! Happy days are ahead.

There's a whole bed of these daffodils just outside next to where we park the cars. They were just begging me to take a picture of them in the beautiful sunshine.

Our New Place

Many of you may know that we recently moved to a new place in March. We're living only about a 10 minute drive further away from Portland now, but it is like a different world. We're now in a very peaceful woodsy and agricultural area where the calm and quiet is palpable. Instead of hearing the MAX train and traffic go by, we hear a bubbling creek, frogs at night and hummingbirds whizzing by during the day.

In the main house on the property lives a lovely family with eight children ranging in age from 2-17. They are all delightful and we enjoy seeing them here and there as we go about our activities. They are so welcoming and fun. Just yesterday they got eight cute little chicks - one for each child - and are going to start raising chickens in the backyard. We can't believe how blessed we are to have found such an ideal spot to live. I could describe forever how much we like it, but instead I think I'll just put up some pictures so you can understand right away :)

Here you can see the main house through the trees. We're living off to the left of the main house in an apartment over the garage.















This is a corner our place as seen from the driveway. The views make it feel like a fun hideaway vacation cabin and there's a really awesome climbing wall in the garage right below our place.














Following are some of the views taken out the window. You can just barely see the creek through the trees.















































The backyard complete with trampoline and fire pit.

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Whirlwind February Trip

We found out in January that Jacob's friend and colleague from Kenya was going to be visiting Montana State University in Bozeman for his work with Engineers Without Borders. It is a rare and choice opportunity to visit with old friends that we meet during our trips in Africa, so we decided to make the effort to drive out to see Ronald. I have the great fortune of having cousins all over the northwest and midwest, and I knew that my cousin Kay and her husband Marvin and their family have been living in Bozeman for years. They very graciously hosted us while we stayed in Bozeman and we had a lovely time with them. We used Jacob's sister's' van for the trip so that we could help her brother-in-law move all his things down to Murray, Utah (just a slight detour). After we dropped him off there, we spent the night and a few hours the next morning visiting with my parents in Sandy, then we were off to Montana. I slept most of the time while Jacob drove, so the driving seemed to fly by.














My Cousin Kay, her husband Marvin and one of their two daughters.

















We really enjoyed catching up on the news from Ronald.















We went to the Museum of the Rockies and we did a short hike around Bozeman. It's a lovely place. Jacob and I decided we wouldn't mind living there someday. Of course, we weren't there when it was 20 below!

Bozeman from above.







































We, of course, had to leave sooner than we wanted to due to responsibilities back in Portland. It worked out that we were able to swing by Rexburg and spend some precious time with my brother James, his wife Katie, and their cutie pie Ava. I am such a super proud Auntie :) It is so fun to see my brother be such a great daddy. Katie totally rocks as a Mom, too (not to mention being a super sister-in-law). Great job guys!